Birth Order Matches
For those of you that have been following my blogs or have my book; Life’s Fingerprint: How Birth Order Affects Your Path Throughout Life; you know how to find your birth order match. Here is a short review for those who are new to this topic.
One of the principles in finding your “love at first sight” is to match up with someone of the opposite gender with your same birth order. A better match is to find someone that matches both the gender and birth order of a sibling in your family. This is the ideal match that lasts forever!
Perfect Matches for the Only Child
For this person finding another Only child is possible. Unique to the Only child, who has no siblings, is the affect of their parents birth orders. The Only child merges the birth orders of both parents into their own for a unique new Only flavor.
For those that have Double birth orders that carry the Only child characteristics this blending of the parent’s birth orders is critical to understanding this person.
Jennifer’s Birth Order
Jennifer has a Double Birth Order. This means that she has four of more years between herself and any other sibling in her family. In her case she is was born in 1969, 10 years younger then her half-brother John Melick born in 1959. This gives her an Only/Two Double Birth order. She was nurtured at home like an Only child so she acquires “Adult Like” traits.
She also gets some traits of a Second born which gives her a sense of privacy and the need to earn money so no one tells her what to do. She is reported to be worth 110 million dollars in 2007 and was rated as one of the top 10 richest women in entertainment.
With 10 years separation between Jennifer and her older half brother she becomes 95% Only and 5% a Second born. Her father has a Three/Only Double Birth order and her mother is a Third born. This gives the Only part of Jennifer’s Double Birth order a lot of Third born flavor and a natural attraction to a Third born.
Jennifer’s and Brad Pitt’s Attraction
We have established that Jennifer is a Only/Two Double birth order. As the first born of her gender in the family she also has a Firstborn flavor that could be the attraction to another Firstborn, in her case husband Brad Pitt. Having been raised by a single parent since the age of 9 when her parents divorced, she picks up a little of her mothers birth order, that of a number Three.
The Three is laughing on the outside but crying on the inside. This was the same birth order of Brad’s sister Julie, a number Three who was also the first of her gender in the family. Jennifer said her relationship with Brad Pitt was very complicated.
Looking at their birth orders tells us he had no idea what she was all about. He thought he was getting a Third born like his sister but it was just the outer wrapping. What he really got was and Only/Two who he didn’t understand. Jennifer having an older brother gave her a better understanding of Brad but not enough to make this a lasting match.
Justin Theroux and Jennifer
Justin is a writer and actor who met Jennifer while filming the comedy Wanderlust in 2010. He has written Iron Man 2, Tropic Thunder, and Rock of Ages. He has acted in Zoolander, Island Emprie, American Psycho and Sex and the City.
Justin was born in 1971 two years younger than Jennifer. In birth order theory age is meaningless, it is the birth order match that matters. He is a number Three birth order being 3 years younger than his older brother with a sister in between.
This gives Jennifer the easy connection as both her parents were Third borns. Bingo, a match for Jennifer and someone she can understand. For Justin another match as he has a number Two older sister who is no where near as powerful as Jennifer.
Will This Marriage Last?
I have pointed out the reason for each of them to be attracted to each other. It is not a perfect match but a better one for her than Brad. Jennifer will have the power in this relationship for the strength of her birth order is a hard one to top. If she sees her Dad and Mom in Justin than this should work.
Update
Justin and Jennifer did marry but it only lasted two and a half years. The strength of her Double birth order is a hard one to match. Good luck with you next pick Jennifer.